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Fairyland, book
Fairyland

Now Available :: From W. W. Norton
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After his wife dies in a car accident in 1973, bisexual writer and activist Steve Abbott moves with his two-year-old daughter to San Francisco. There they discover a city bustling with gay men in search of liberation—few of whom are raising a child.

Steve throws himself into San Francisco’s vibrant cultural scene. He takes Alysia to parties, pushes her in front of the microphone at poetry readings, and introduces her to a world of artists, thinkers, and writers. But the pair live like nomads, moving from apartment to apartment, with a revolving cast of roommates and little structure. As a child Alysia views her father as a loving playmate but as she gets older Alysia wants more than anything to fit in. The world, she learns, is hostile to difference.

In her teens, Steve’s friends—several of whom she befriended—fall ill as “the gay plague” starts its rampage through their community. While Alysia is studying in New York and then France, her father comes to tell her it’s time to come home; He’s sick with AIDS. She must choose, as her father once did, whether to take on the responsibility of caring for him or to continue the independent life she worked so hard to create.

Praise for

"Fairyland is [a] daughter's compassionate, clear-eyed reckoning with [the] truths that defined her singular girlhood at the dawn of the gay liberation movement." - Alexandra Styron in The New York Times Book Review 

"Alysia beautifully remembers the innocence of the age between the disappearance of the Beats and the onset of AIDS." - The San Francisco Chronicle

"The striking photo on the cover of Fairyland looks like it could have been taken one hundred years ago. It gives a sense of the otherworldly childhood that Abbott recounts in this memoir about growing up with her openly gay, single father in San Francisco in the nineteen-seventies and eighties. The memoir doubles as a portrait of a city and a community at a crucial point in history. Her memoir is funny, strange, and sweet--she remembers playing dress-up with her father's flamboyant friends, learning about sex and gender without a mother, being immersed in art and creativity and, finally, watching as the AIDS epidemic decimated the life she knew. " - The New Yorker 

"An affecting memoir." - Elle

"As a chronicle of American culture, Abbott's story matters." - The Boston Globe

"[Fairyland] tells more than the story of one person; [it] opens a window on an entire society." - O, Book of the Week 
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"[S]he writes up to a standard that would do any writer-parent proud...Fairyland is written in shiningly clear, precise prose that gives it literary as well as testimonial distinction."  - Booklist (starred review)

"What makes this story especially successful is the meticulous way the author uses letters and her father’s cartoons and journals to reconstruct the world she and her father inhabited. As she depicts the dynamics of a unique, occasionally fraught, gay parent–straight child relationship, Abbott offers unforgettable glimpses into a community that has since left an indelible mark on both the literary and social histories of one of America’s most colorful cities. A sympathetic and deeply moving story." - Kirkus

"Not one to shy away from details - be they exuberant, flamboyant or emotional - Abbott's Fairyland is an ode to family, love, and life. Do yourself a favor, read it." - Library Reads

"It is [as] honest and loving an assessment of a father/daughter memoir as has ever made it onto the printed page. And the writing itself is glorious, evocative, at times hypnotic." - New York Journal of Books

"In Alysia Abbott’s gorgeous account of her 1980s San Francisco childhood, a whimsical gay poet becomes an intelligent father, his motherless daughter a forceful and articulate young woman, and a rich, dizzy fairyland is shuttered by a plague. As a chronicle of the moment when the San Francisco of Armistead Maupin became the city of Harvey Milk, when gay and experimental poetry flourished in California, Fairyland is vivid and indelible. As the portrait of a conspiracy of love between a father and a daughter, it is heartrending, a brilliant addition to the literature of American memoir." - Honor Moore, Author of The Bishop’s Daughter

"Fairyland is a vivid, sensitively written account of a complex but always loving relationship… This is not only a painfully honest autobiography but also a tribute to old-fashioned bohemian values in a world that is increasingly conformist and materialistic. I couldn't put it down!" - Edmund White, author of A Boy's Own Story

"At once a father-daughter love story, a testament to survival, a meditation on profound loss, and a searing chronicle of a complex coming of age, Fairyland is a beautiful, haunting book that instructs, even as it breaks our hearts." - Dani Shapiro, author of Devotion: A Memoir

"Generous, precise, and deeply moving, Fairyland is a love story that not only brings a new generational perspective to a history we’re in danger of forgetting, but irrevocably shifts the way we think about family itself."
- Alison Bechdel, author of Are You My Mother?

"Clear-eyed and heartrending, Fairyland captures a singular time and place in American history. It also captures something much more important: what it means to be truly loved—and to love truly. A beautiful book."
- Andrew McCarthy, author of The Longest Way Home

 

Fairyland, book

Only Child: Writers on the Singular Joys and Solitary Sorrows of Growing Up Solo

Edited by Deborah Siegel and Daphne Uviller

 

"The gems of this volume are the authors who trade analysis for storytelling, such as magician and author Teller's life-affirming New Year's Eve 1997, Peter Terzian's Postcards to Myself, Rebecca Walker's Blood of my Blood and Alysia Abbott's A Pair of Onlies. "
—Publishers Weekly

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Fairyland, book

Out of the Ordinary: Essays on Growing Up with Gay, Lesbian, and Transgendered Parents

Edited by Noelle Howey and Ellen Samuels

 

Out of the Ordinary won the 2000 Lamda award for Non-Fiction Anthology, and Young Adult Non-Fiction

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